W? RUFK!? Play Mate, come out and ...

Every girl needs a playmate. We begin in childhood, with that best friend. They call them bff's now.. kind of cute actually. Then we graduate to middle school and high school, and our friendships change. We also discover boys (oh my!!). As we move into adulthood and middle age, our friends marry and become bff's with their hubbies, although in many cases it is the hubby who now have a wife as his bff. We gals? We still need our gal-pals, big time. Even so, a playmate is a wonderful thing, and as a middle age single woman, I find a playmate to be a very wonderful thing and with some luck, he is also a wonderful guy... but I digress...

Today, I connected online with a playmate, and he is a playmate! Getting him to come out to play with me is proving to be a bit of a challenge. Not that I am trying very hard... oh wait, hardness is HIS job!

He likes to play online.. which can be fun, given the capabilities of hand free devices and video chats. We can have it all but that all important thing called touch . I do like touching (yum), and eye contact. Nothing compares to a good pair of hands (and lips, and .. well, you know!).

Mr J has a cute picture or 4 on his profile, and this helps.. especially if the picture is really of him, and this is not always the case with online dating sites. I understand that women fake it there too. OH DEAR! On the other hand, if the playing is restricted to online, then pictures really do matter... make it sexy! And the sound of the voice is very important if we are live! Ladies? Do you agree!?

And now.. I gots to go.. Mr IT is on the line.. what the ...!? 


~A. Tan GLedmess