As one can see, the time between posts has been lengthening! I've been (a'hem) busy lately. Remember the CO? Yep... he's got a line in me that won't let go. How does this happen!? I really did mean to take it to 50 first dates.. it is, after all, a numbers game.....
Unless you are a certain man in my life, which simply means that things seem to fall in his lap.. including me. Widowed a short time, he meets me online, and sweeps me off my feet... and he informs me he fine with that.. how could one not be fine with this? This is absolutely, incredibly wonderful.
So now what? Now we explore the intricacies of intimacy... and intricate they are. I can freely admit that I have never stressed over meeting a young man's parents - though I am certain those young men stressed over meeting mine. It is just way things are.. but meeting a man's children is an entirely different thing! What an experience. And, I find I am more comfortable meeting the sons than I am meeting THE DAUGHTER.
THE DAUGHTER is a grand inquisitor
and if I cared less for the father or knew for sure where, in his heart, the daughter resides, this would be easier...
As it is, I am still in this man's life. Keep in mind it is for the obvious and more shallow reasons..
1. he is good in bed.. well, better than good actually
2. he has a hot tub IN a sun room! what is not to like here??
3. he has a nice house and 2 (mostly) well behaved dogs that I can play with on occasion
4. He likes making me happy
5. He opens dooors
6. takes out the trash
7. does dishes.. and COOKS!
8. he's funny
9. he's cute
and finally... did I mention how good he is in bed??
I may be in love... heaven help us all...
*clapping hands* If I were a less mature person I would be singing a certain song that involves two people sitting in a tree....k-i-s-s-i-n-g...BUT I am way more mature than that. Seriously.
ReplyDeleteI am very happy for you! So, how did the meeting with the Grand Inquisitor go? Was a little like meeting the Great Oz? (you know, big booming voice only to find out their a little insecure and maybe a tad over protective?)
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ReplyDeleteLOL, you have such a way with words.. it was exactly like that.. the Great and Powerful Oz with more boob and less facial hair.. oh me, oh my! She actually is quite nice I think but very used to being in 'charge'.. my child would have had a foot up her you-know-what long before she could ever have adopted such an approach to anyone.. much less someone old enough to be her parent.
ReplyDeleteAll that said.. her husband is very nice and she is calming down. Dad says she thinks I am a 'nice lady'... it'll take some time to be sure.
Since it's been a few weeks since this post, how is she now?
ReplyDeleteactually she seemed more accepting.. now that things are over though, she can be what she wants to whomever...
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